You
won't believe what this father said pushed him to abandon his children in
school for 8 years.
Mr
Segun Adepegba, the father of the three children abandoned in a boarding school
for eight years in Abule-Iroko in Ado-Odo Ota Local Government Area of Ogun
State, Mr Segun Adepegba, on Wednesday, reached out to Punch Metro.
Adepegba
said hardship pushed him to the wall and that was why he could not take care of
his children. He, however, promised to visit them before the end of the week.
The
father of three, in a telephone interview with Punch Metro, recounted his
ordeal, saying, “life has been very tough for me.” He said he left the children
because he was jobless and had no house to accommodate them.
It was
reported on Tuesday, Adepegba’s children-Seun, 14, Titilola 13, and Seyi, 10,
had been abandoned since 2007 at Solid Rock Model College in Abule-Iroko. The
children, who had been eager to meet their parents, said the absence of their
parents was affecting their studies.
For
many years, the school authorities had been trying to reach Adepegba to no
avail. The proprietor of the school, Mr Samuel Ayegbusi, had told our
correspondent that any time he called Adepegba and he realised it was him, he
would switch off his phones.
Adepegba,
however, bowed to pressure on Tuesday after reading the report by Punch Metro. He told Punch Metro’s
correspondent that abandoning his children was inevitable, promising that he
would visit the school.
While
narrating his ordeal, he said, “In 2007, my wife and I had a misunderstanding
and she told me she was leaving me. I was frustrated and the children were
little. Seyi, the youngest was just two years while Titilola was just five.
“There
was no way I could give them motherly care. I had no job. As a man, I needed
someone to help me take care of them and that was why my sister suggested that
we enroll them in a boarding school.”
Adepegba
also narrated that when the children’s bills kept accumulating and he had no
means of paying, he was afraid that if he came to the school, the proprietor
would get him arrested.
He
said, “I feared that if I suddenly appeared at the school, the proprietor would
get the police to arrest me. I really appreciate the proprietor of Solid Rock
Model College, for coming to my rescue and accepting the responsibility to help
me take care of my children. The truth is this: I was pushed to the wall. I
didn’t want my children to be beggars on the street.
“All
these years, I have been jobless. I had no house to live in. I was putting up
with someone. I just rented a one-room apartment and just got a job. I am not a
wicked father. I really miss them but I am gradually overcoming the challenges
I have been facing. I did not abandon them in that sense. I can assure you that
before the week runs out, I will visit them.”
When Asked
whether his wife had called him about how the children were doing, Adepegba
said since she left him in 2007, he had not heard from her.
“The
last time we saw each other was probably in 2007 when she left me. I have been
trying to reach her but my search has not been fruitful. I heard that she is
somewhere in the northern part of the country,” he said.
However,
the school proprietor told our source that the school authorities had no
intention of getting Adepegba arrested for his debt .He said he reported the
matter to the Ogun State Police Command because he was fed up.
He
said, “I have nothing against Mr Adepegba and I understand his plight. My
grievance was that he kept on rejecting my calls and abandoned his children.
How could he as a father leave his children for this long? It is not a good
thing.”
It was
learnt that the news of their father’s return had lifted the heart of the children.
The children were all smiling when they were told that their father had
promised to return before the end of the week.
Speaking
on the telephone on Wednesday, Seun, the eldest of the trio said, “I am very
happy that daddy has promised to come back. It means I would not have to spend
my holidays in the school again.”
Titilola
added, “I hope this is not another promise that will fail. I am really looking
forward to seeing him because it will make me very happy.”
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